what did she do wrong?
my older sister christina is 21. shes in college. she just found out that she is pregnant with her boyfriend’s baby. they live in an apartment together and both go to college [shes going to be a teacher and hes going to be a doctor] they have been together since like 2001 i think….when they were freshman in highschool. well she plans to drop out after this semester and continue her education online. my mom flipped out and went nuts but christinas an adult, she has a job [shes had it since she was 16] her boyfriend ryan has a job he had since he waas like 16. his mom hates my sister and is super religious and she dosent think any girl is good 4 any of her sons and when ryan told her about my sister his mom flipped and said that child is a sin and the son of a slut [they dont even no the gender tho!] my parents dont even want to talk to christina and his parents are furious with him cause they think its going to ruin his future. she is supposed to graduate college next year and she dont plan on stopping school shes continuing college but online
what did she do that was so wrong
my sister didnt handle it well at first.
it took her about a month to take it all in and now we are going baby shopping tomorrow 
and we went today too haha theres nothing they can do now, as they are both pro-choice and they dont want to give their baby away [i think part of it is they plan on having more when they are ready and they would feel bad giving one away idc its complicated ugh lol] and she really didnt look into things so much;shes going to start though lmao my sisters a procrastinator
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I’m in a similar situation although my mum took it very well. My gf’s mum took it badly and shouted and screamed etc. Anyway we’re both in University and both have jobs. Living together for over a year now, been together nearly 5 years. 20 years of age.
Nothing wrong whatsoever, its the 21st century and I think we can now say its become the norm to have kids out of wedlock! As long as the mum and dad to be are happy, that is the main thing as it is their lives and their baby. Good luck to you sister and to you on being an aunt!
She is actually handling everything quite well. The parents are really upset because your sis and her bf didnt follow their plan of living. Parents have this lifestyle that they want us to live and if our plans dont line up with theirs they tend to get upset. Hopefully everything will blow over.
i dont think so. she is an adult and she is responsible for her actions. if she thinks she is ready for a child, and has enough money, then let her go for it. i think that eventually the parents will get along.
Well….. she didn’t plan very well and didn’t realize (I guess) how hard it is to raise a baby and child when you already have a job with good benefits, much less when you’re not even finished with school.
As for the dad– is he still planning on going to medical school?? How will he pay for it and pay for everything for the family and the baby? Medical school takes a LOT of dedication and hard work. If they have this baby and want to raise it together, more than likely, he will be gone A LOT. This makes it hard on your sister who will want his help with the baby so she can study and do all the things she is used to doing now.
When parents ‘flip out’, it’s usually because they can see already how this is going to change ALL of their plans, even though they can’t see it yet.
Good luck to your sister and her boyfriend. They have a lot to think about and plan for. (BTW, I don’t think you can get a teaching degree online– just a master’s or something once you already have a teaching degree– check this out, though.)
Things will calm down with your parents before the baby gets here. Give them some time.
some people are just really against sex before marriage
Your mum will be upset because your sis is so close to
graduation and she’ll be scared incase all the work your
sis has put in to train to be a teacher goes to waste. She
probably doesn’t understand the online education thing either.
Every Mother has dreams and hopes for their kids and
no-one is ever quite good enough for them when it comes
to relationships and your Mum would have probably preferred
education, work, marriage and family in that order but things
don’t always work out that way. She’ll come round just give
her time. As you said it took about a month for your sister to
get her head around things now the two of you are out on
the town buying baby things lol. Good luck to you and your
family, hope all goes well xx
The thing she did wrong is she got pregnant and isn’t married. Simple.
You`re right. She is an adult and capable of making her own decisions.
I was pregnant at 21. my parents were furious too but as soon as I had that baby everyone was in love.
Then your parents will turn into these weird people who will let the baby get away with everything you got in trouble for and give it candy behind your back, and buy it whatever it wants or doesn`t want and will play peeka boo for hours.
Your parents will come around. .
His parents maybe not.
She`s keeping the baby. She`s shopping for it. (I don`t like saying ìt)
Everything will fall into place. It will be the healthiest and best educated kid on the block.